My Lucid Intervals

Hi guys. How was your week?

I have been stressed and depressed for the past few weeks. To those who have known me via Facebook perhaps you know the reason.

Should we, women, qualify cheating by gravity? Do we need to analyze things by degree? What I am trying to say is this - Is there a need to give an equivalent amount of reaction to every act of cheating (dating, having sex, flirtatious messages) . Where do we draw the line between cheating and a mere act of flirting? Is there a difference? The bottom line is Women get hurt by these insensitive acts of men. Whether it be a flirtatious chat with a colleague or a simple movie date with another girl, women get hurt. This undermine the basic foundation of a relationship which is TRUST. The worst thing that a man can do is defend his actions by banking on the woman's shortcomings. I am undergoing such a painful experience right now. I and my partner for ten years are trying to solve things. Can I forget and forgive such acts? Yes. However, I hate it when people (him included) justify his acts as if the crime committed was in a frustrated stage. In a relationship, cheating will always be in a consummated stage. There are no degrees to speak of, only lies to unveil. Cheating is cheating. No more no less.

I am the just a lady behind the pictures, the makeup and this blog. Most of you do not know that I am a very strong woman. My boyfriend, friends and family can attest to this. However, the hardest part in my body appeared to be my softest point. My mind and my heart is in a great struggle. With God's grace , I am hoping that everything will be alright.

Now I know what true love is. No, it is not the kilig moments often seen in movies. It goes far beyond butterflies in your stomach and sleepless nights. It is loving someone and accepting someone despite his/her flaws without any qualms. Kudos to women who are undergoing pain but is moving on with their heads up and strength in their hearts.

Happiness is a choice. Thus, I chose to be happy with him.

Ok. Enough of my melodrama. :) I just want to share a piece of my life with. you. I should do this more often don't you think?

Something to make your heart melt more.. Hehe Our cute persian kitten modeling for me. She is so fluffy !!! Waaaahh

My latest addiction - Starbucks Cookie Crumble Cheesecake
I felt heaven in my first bite. :)

Goodies from Khei Shop online. :))
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Loot Bag from Neutrogena Event last Friday.. I am excited to try the Hydro Boost Gel with SPF 30. The Hydro Boost gel ( The one in a jar) is by far the best moisturizer I have ever tried. :))

Godbless everyone!